Still here.
30 Jul 2008 Leave a Comment
in Here Comes the Bride, Off the Needles
Desperately trying to finish this before I leave:
So I can start this.
And packing and last-minute wedding planning. And…. oh yeah! Sanity.
Quick report.
27 Jul 2008 Leave a Comment
in Here Comes the Bride, Knitting Content Ahead, Weekend Update
Things are crazy here, what with the last minute wedding preparations, frenzied knitting (to finish samples before I go), the diminished space in our apartment (due to wedding packages!)
Posting will probably be a little light in the next few weeks. I’m working at my temp job until this Thursday, and then the little sis flies in on Friday morning and we head for LA – we’re driving so I don’t expect to get there until Sunday night. With the hassles of travel these days, I’m glad we’re driving, but right now I’m trying to pack for the next three weeks of wedding, honeymoon, and a few different climates.

I’ll try and check back in as I’m able, and will post pictures when I can find the cable, a laptop and myself in the same room! For now I leave you with a few photos of the weekend. The first is what I came home and found yesterday. Apparently Wes has rescued him (Bob the Box Turtle as he became known) from the middle of a busy road. Somehow he thought it would be fun to scare the bejeezus out of me by bringing him home. Needless to say we will NOT be needing a turtle-sitter while at the wedding. We took Bob to a nearby lake last night and let him go wild.
The last two are photos of yarn I’ve been hoarding in my stash. The yarn is dyed by a semi-local artisan and each skein is one-of-a-kind. I actually took a dying class from her yesterday and will be posting pics of my own hand-dyed once I skein it up. However, these two are destined to become socks on my honeymoon and will also constitute my vacation knitting pictures for Summer of Socks. LOVE this yarn.
The Difference Between Girls and Boys.
23 Jul 2008 4 Comments
Dear Laura:
Tomorrow, I plan to go to the Men’s Wearhouse, but I need to know the color tie and cummerbund you’d like me to get as a first choice. Was it white? Ivory?
Love,
Dad
I sent this back:
Dad:
Ivory.
If you want to match the groomsmen they got something called Tuscany Bisque.
Love,
Laura
Dad replied:
Hey, I’m a guy. Guys don’t recognize colors like “Tuscany Bisque”. (Ask Wes if you don’t believe me.) We only know seven colors: red, green, blue, orange, yellow, purple and brown. Oh, yeah, and the non-colors: black and white. But, because I love you, I will go to the Men’s Wearhouse, screw up my courage, and ask with my best straight face whether they have “Tuscany Bisque”!
I forwarded this response to Wes and this is what I got back:
Hey I thought bisque was a soup.
Duly forwarded to Dad. His response:
Told ya!
Men: 2, Woman: Hey they’re wearing it aren’t they?
Denied?
23 Jul 2008 2 Comments
in Political Statements, Ranting

When I made the decision to quit my job in Los Angeles and relocate to the Midwest, I knew certain things wouldn’t be easy. Since starting work after college, I hadn’t given much thought to what it actually takes to get medical insurance coverage, since I was always eligible for the group plan at the company for which I worked.
I’ve made no secret on here of the fact that I struggle with anxiety, and sometimes a bit of depression. I was diagnosed in college and have spent a lot of years working with some great health care professionals to the point that I’m not constantly in therapy any more and my medication is simple and consistent. For the most part I don’t wake up every day (or go to bed every night) really even thinking that I have a problem.
But try and apply for individual medical insurance these days, and it’s a problem. When I quit my job in January I immediately went to apply for coverage at a large, well-known insurance company, which promised great individual coverage. Now I’m a moderately fit young woman. I fit into my weight percentile, I exercise a little (ok not enough, but I have no physical limitations), my blood pressure is normal and I don’t smoke, use illegal substances or drink to excess. I’m young and healthy and you would think that I’d be an insurance company’s dream.
But I knew it the minute I hit that part of the application: “Have you ever been treated for mental illness? If yes, please give us some additional information.” My application came back denied. No rider, no offers of a different plan, nothing. DENIED.
It was then I learned why so much of America is not insured. It doesn’t matter if you have money to pay the premiums (which is saying a lot since the premiums are VERY high). It doesn’t matter if you’re sick and need treatment and are willing to pay extra for that – in fact, it makes you worse off. You just can’t get covered.
Now don’t go thinking that I’ve not been covered by insurance for the last 6 months. I went ahead and enrolled in what I could: a catastrophic policy through my alumni association. It won’t cover anything, unless I fall victim to a bus crash or a magician’s slicing trick that goes awry, but I’m covered. Sort of.
But that policy is now coming to an end, and I find myself in a weird place again. I have no permanent employment yet, and though I’m getting married next month and the coverage on my fiance’s insurance could be retroactive, it would appear I have a few months before I can reliably give a sigh of relief at being covered again.
So today I filled out another application for health coverage. I filled out the application completely, even though I know that the section on Mental Illness is once again going to be my doom. So here I sit, waiting again to be denied.
Knitting update.
20 Jul 2008 1 Comment
There is not enough knitting happening at all. However, I did manage to take another step forward in my Winnie the Pooh project. Here is Eeyore:
Weekend in photos.
20 Jul 2008 Leave a Comment
in A Picture's Worth 1000 Words, Domesticity, The Great Outdoors, Weekend Update
We managed to accomplish quite a bit this weekend. Yesterday we did wedding and clothes shopping, ran errands, and found a tasty lunch. Last night we saw Hellboy II – I liked it a lot better than the first. This morning we got up really early and went out to kayak at Longview Lake. We trolled near the shores looking for wildlife, and enjoyed photographing a beautiful water lily garden. Then we came home and I started working. I have irish soda bread baking right now, and I just turned the rest of our CSA peaches into a healthy peach cobbler – I’ll post the recipe if it turns out well. Now for some knitting and maybe a nap. Oh yes, and the pictures:
1. Dock, 2. Wes & I Kayaking, 3. Shadow Water Lily, 4. Water Lily, 5. Water Lily Garden, 6. Water Lily, 7. Gnarly tree, 8. Tree & Sky, 9. Fresh peach cobbler!
Positively HILARIOUS
18 Jul 2008 Leave a Comment
in A Book is a Woman's Best Friend

I decided to take a short break from the heavier non-fiction I’ve been delving into last week, and picked up a copy of Tony Hawks’ Playing the Moldovans at Tennis.
I first learned about Tony Hawks some years ago during an NPR interview he did during the launch of his book Traveling ‘Round Ireland With a Fridge, which if you haven’t read yet, you MUST read. The premise of his first book is simple. One night, while both men are exceedingly drunk, a friend bets Tony that he can’t hitchhike around Ireland with a dorm-size refrigerator as a traveling companion. The rest of the book you can imagine – I have never laughed so hard in my life.
In this book, Tony seems to fall prey to the same problem. While exceedingly drunk, the same friend bets him that he can’t beat the entire Moldovan Football (Soccer) team at tennis. And so, with 11 names on his list, Tony sets off to Moldovia, a small country in the former-USSR area of the world, to win 11 games of tennis or sing the Moldovan Anthem in front of a crowd while buck naked for failing. I have to say that the second book isn’t quite as inane as the first, but was a truly funny and quick read.
Positively HORRIBLE
18 Jul 2008 1 Comment

I don’t know if you’ve heard too much about it, but Dr. Horrible is the new craze that’s sweeping the (geek) nation. Dr. Horrible is the latest series from Joss Whedon, starring Neil Patrick Harris, Felicia Day and Nathan Fillion. They sing, they dance, they do their laundry a lot. So far only two 13-minute episodes have been released on the Internet, but Act III premieres this weekend and I can’t wait. The show is utterly and totally bizarre, but completely endearing. I’d suggest you give it a try!
Well Whaddya Know?
17 Jul 2008 1 Comment
in Here Comes the Bride, Knitting Content Ahead

Guess who’s getting married on Elizabeth Zimmerman’s birthday? How perfect is that? Couldn’t be better if I’d planned it that way….
(which of course I did…. NOT!)
Fresh sourdough bread.
16 Jul 2008 Leave a Comment

I’d mentioned to Wes a while back, that now that I’m living in Kansas I thought I would like to join a CSA. (Los Angeles isn’t exactly rife with farm life…) If you’re not familiar with the term CSA it stands for Community Supported Agriculture. Basically you join a group and deposit some money and then you receive a share of one or more farms’ fresh fruits and vegetables each week, usually throughout the summer.
So Wes texted me last week, in the middle of the work day, to announce that his company was one of the sponsors of a CSA and that he had signed us up on his lunch hour. Our pickup times would be Monday evenings at the local grocery and for the lean price of $25 per week we would dine in farm fresh foods!
This past Monday night we reported to the market, two canvas sacks in hand, and were duly loaded up with a half gallon of skim milk, 8 ears of sweet corn, 4 large tomatoes, 1 lb of ground chuck, fresh rosemary, two green peppers, a dozen peaches, a loaf of FRESH sourdough bread and some lip balm, as well as some recipes to try with these ingredients. All of these came from local farms and arrived in minimal packaging.
So far the produce has been varied – one of the tomatoes didn’t fare too well, but the rest look great. We haven’t gotten into the corn yet (but it looks great!), and the peaches need a little time to ripen. But what I like about this is that it isn’t preserved with pesticides or chemicals – it’s real, fresh, natural vegetables. And the Sourdough bread, I’m happy to say, is FABULOUS!
I like knowing that we’re doing our part to support local farms and since I’ve been listening to Michael Pollan’s The Omnivore’s Dilemma I’ve been starting to at least think more about the way we eat.
More updates on this soon.



